Nudism: Father and sons / parent-child

It may be that those who don't have children (of either sex) might possibly 'project' what might be their own doubts (or fears or sexual inclinations) when they consider how gay or bisexual fathers could be perfectly comfortable being naked with their children (especially sons), or even want to make sure that they DO get the opportunity to learn / experience being comfortable naked with their dads and other men.

I don't ever recall having the slightest urge to 'know' my own sons biblically (i.e. in a less than wholesome way) and never gave the first thought to being sexually attracted to them. I'd be less than honest to say that this was not always true about some of their high school friends and soccer teammates. However, I never ever acted on these thoughts - although I wouldn't morally condemn some man who did - that's not what the issue or the original question on this thread is about.

I'm not rejecting the possibility that some fathers could have more than an affectionate or fatherly interest in their sons, but I'd bet that most do not.

 

  

In my own case, there was no willful desire, ulterior motive or sinister plan to let the boys see me (and my wife) naked. It was just a natural family thing. We did not raise them in Judeo-Christian religion-influenced America so that probably had a lot to do with reasons why it just seemed natural. We bathed together, went to public baths and hot springs resorts, and a few sometime visited nude beaches (or clothing-optional spots, in other countries - such as Greece and Munich's Englischergarten). Conversations sometimes included references to what they saw or were experiencing and there were the inevitable questions. But it was appropriate and in context - so it was a good way and good time to answer their questions: about sex or sexual attraction or feelings and behavior.

I think my sons today have a healthy respect for the human body and an amazing tolerance for

diversity - including my own bisexuality, which evidently was even clear to them long before we actually told them.

I can't say that it's all attributable to our being nude together as a family but I think it was a contributing factor or at least just one in a long series of ways of thinking and ways of treating people and being nude that helped them to be open and honest about sexual issues, and not be morally uptight or self-righteous about gender, nudity and human sexual behavior.

They are both heterosexual and over 21-year-old male adults. I am talking about our being nude when they were infants, young boys and into the teenage years. We don't have as much occasion to get naked together these days.

Well... they do mean something.... what more can I say. I'll try.

I was TRYING to support you in the idea that being nude with your sons (or any kids) can be (even should be) something that's very natural and not a cause for alarm. (like some of the hyper-moralistic gay men are suggesting).

BUT .. it does depend on the situation (where you take them and what you 'show' them both physically and your own mental messages to the boys. And it also depends a lot on the boys' (children) own self-understanding and self-acceptance.

Hey, I'm not perfect. The 'idea' of a father and son being sexually involved is a secret fantasy. I enjoy reading Handjobs

http://www.hjmag.com/handjobs/

But it IS just fantasy material - I find I am not attracted at all to my own offspring. However, the thought has crossed my mind often enough about other fathers and their sons.

I think that all boys have at least one time or another (or maybe more than that) had to come to grips with the thought of their father as a sexual being or even an object of some kind of sexual emotions or physical intimacy. But they usually grow out (of it) and grow up (more interested in other things or girls (or guys) their own age before any attraction toward their dad is acted upon. Close to 90% of boys have experience with sexual 'play' with other boys - it's about being a male of the human species.

Fathers are likely to have experienced these same fleeting feelings (and then usually they passed ) and the realization about their sons growing up sexually. I noticed that the discussion has since about stopped. There was one point that had many people curious. You avoided answering the question about your son's ages. In today's climate of "anti-child predator" and all the media hype about child sexual abuse, and Internet child/teen sex / chat rooms etc, I realize you probably don't want to admit much of anything, but you could have said just that it's private or that it's not important to the gist of the discussion. By the way, I would not fault you if you did admit you enjoy being admired by your sons (I don't care what age they are).

Hope you can get what I meant.

Kelly

Shared father-son fantasy - interesting revelation by a friend

 Part 1     A mutual interest in gay incest with one of my online friends whom I visited in March 2016.

Damn.. one of the pics uploaded by a friend (Abe J) to the Daddy-Son Tribe is shown to the left. The photo actually looks a lot like him. Most all of the pics there are really nasty, and and the existence of

that tribe is really hot! I am a big fan of Hand Jobs magazine - they also publish a monthly collection dad/boy coach/athlete stories - which I really love reading. (See note about Hand Jobs below)

It really cool that one of my friends is attracted to the idea -- I would love being his 'part-time' daddy - some time soon I hope - although I don't really fit the bill as a buff, mustachioed, bear-type daddy.

See the link: Hand Jobs magazine http://www.hjmag.com/handjobs
  [Note:  Hand Jobs magazine has shut down. So you can no longer enjoy its great content: stories and drawings. ]

One of their favorite publications is the Daddy Bedtime Tales series.

If you can't buy them in a local bookstore, you can also order then online (or download the PDF version for a fee). I'll be happy to deliver some directly to your doorstep one of these days.. or you can come to visit me on the Big Island and we can read the stories together (smile)... and then we can have fun playing daddy and son (screwing around on the beach and everywhere in between (LOL)..

That is really so hot.. I'm not really at the point that I ever tell anybody I'm into fantasies about sex between a father and son (or nephew/uncle) but those male sexual/romance scenarios really get me aroused... I think that's one reason that CMNM is so attractive -- that kind of nudity (without it necessarily resulting in any actual overt sexual behavior) is likely to happen when the partners know each other well.. or when there is an authority or control/dominant factor involved.


Part 2  Ass Friday's Adventure

[This is a posting by Brad]  posted previously the DF phpbb on July 29, 2008

So I wanted to head to the regular sex club I go on Friday afternoon and hang naked, while mostly everyone there is clothed and older than I am. 

This Friday though before that i went to this guy's house who wanted to video tape me, mainly my ass he gave me a rim job while he was tapping it and his buddy was watching it online.

 Then I walked a couple blocks to the sex club, I stripped naked, the guys that work there already know me and check me out too. 

I had three experiences there, the first in the patio, a guy and I were jacking off. He wanted to sniff my ass so I spread my cheeks while he went at it and eventually came.

Later a young dude, very nice looking and muscular, was really taken by seeing me all naked and erect, so he started following me and we ended up upstair. He pulled his pants down and we jacked each other off. He had a great ass so I wanted to rim it and finger it but he was nervous; however, he came a big load. 
[  <<-  Pic at left is of the author of this blog ]

Finally a regular older handsome man spotted me and I really like what he does, just groping me, fondling me and spreading me while others watch. We tried different places and a wide variety of men there saw all they wanted as he touched and groped me while he was fully clothed. 

Finally I came in front of him and 4 other guys watching and jerking off along with me.
Also I have been going to the front where the main restrooms are and pass by the older men that work there fully naked letting them watch all they want.
Later on Sat that was another story , a 38 year old  married man that met online came over. He was kind of nervous, but we ended up naked in bed jacking off each other, and fingering each other until we came. He really liked it.

The End

   

Nudism: Father and sons / parent-child

It may be that those who don't have children (of either sex) might possibly 'project' what might be their own doubts (or fears or sexual inclinations) when they consider how gay or bisexual fathers could be perfectly comfortable being naked with their children (especially sons), or even want to make sure that they DO get the opportunity to learn / experience being comfortable naked with their dads and other men.

I don't ever recall having the slightest urge to 'know' my own sons biblically (i.e. in a less than wholesome way) and never gave the first thought to being sexually attracted to them. I'd be less than honest to say that this was not always true about some of their high school friends and soccer teammates. However, I never ever acted on these thoughts - although I wouldn't morally condemn some man who did - that's not what the issue or the original question on this thread is about.

I'm not rejecting the possibility that some fathers could have more than an affectionate or fatherly interest in their sons, but I'd bet that most do not.

In my own case, there was no willful desire, ulterior motive or sinister plan to let the boys see me (and my wife) naked. It was just a natural family thing. We did not raise them in Judeo-Christian religion-influenced America so that probably had a lot to do with reasons why it just seemed natural. We bathed together, went to public baths and hot springs resorts, and a few sometime visited nude beaches (or clothing-optional spots, in other countries - such as Greece and Munich's Englischergarten). Conversations sometimes included references to what they saw or were experiencing and there were the inevitable questions. But it was appropriate and in context - so it was a good way and good time to answer their questions: about sex or sexual attraction or feelings and behavior.

I think my sons today have a healthy respect for the human body and an amazing tolerance for

diversity - including my own bisexuality, which evidently was even clear to them long before we actually told them.

I can't say that it's all attributable to our being nude together as a family but I think it was a contributing factor or at least just one in a long series of ways of thinking and ways of treating people and being nude that helped them to be open and honest about sexual issues, and not be morally uptight or self-righteous about gender, nudity and human sexual behavior.

They are both heterosexual and over 21-year-old male adults. I am talking about our being nude when they were infants, young boys and into the teenage years. We don't have as much occasion to get naked together these days.

Well... they do mean something.... what more can I say. I'll try.

I was TRYING to support you in the idea that being nude with your sons (or any kids) can be (even should be) something that's very natural and not a cause for alarm. (like some of the hyper-moralistic gay men are suggesting).

BUT .. it does depend on the situation (where you take them and what you 'show' them both physically and your own mental messages to the boys. And it also depends a lot on the boys' (children) own self-understanding and self-acceptance.

Hey, I'm not perfect. The 'idea' of a father and son being sexually involved is a secret fantasy.

I enjoy reading Handjobs

http://www.hjmag.com/handjobs/

But it IS just fantasy material - I find I am not attracted at all to my own offspring. However, the thought has crossed my mind often enough about other fathers and their sons.

I think that all boys have at least one time or another (or maybe more than that) had to come to grips with the thought of their father as a sexual being or even an object of some kind of sexual emotions or physical intimacy. But they usually grow out (of it) and grow up (more interested in other things or girls (or guys) their own age before any attraction toward their dad is acted upon. Close to 90% of boys have experience with sexual 'play' with other boys - it's about being a male of the human species.

Fathers are likely to have experienced these same fleeting feelings (and then usually they passed ) and the realization about their sons growing up sexually.

I noticed that the discussion has since about stopped. There was one point that had many people curious. You avoided answering the question about your son's ages.

 In today's climate of "anti-child predator" and all the media hype about child sexual abuse, and Internet child/teen sex / chat rooms etc, I realize you probably don't want to admit much of anything, but you could have said just that it's private or that it's not important to the gist of the discussion. By the way, I would not fault you if you did admit you enjoy being admired by your sons (I don't care what age they are).

Hope you can get what I meant.

Kelly

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